Have any of you ever engaged into cybersex relationship. What happend when you finally met the person?

My wife got addicted to cybersex and wants to meet sme of the guys she had these sessions with. She also has an alcohol addiction and is now in rehab even though she feels like she has nmo addiction problems….but she did decide to go to rehab. But anyway…Have any of you ever done this cybersex stuff…and then went on to meet the person? How did it go? Did the relationship last long? Or did it crumble once the virtual relationship became reality? She is throwing away her whole fmaily and house for these internet love affairs……what do you think will happen once she meets these people?

Your wife will be greatly disappointed. More often than not, these young men are just wanting to get laid… sorry for the blunt way of putting it. Your wife is looking for that euphoria that comes with getting her “fix”. When fantasy clashes with reality she will experience disappointment, guilt, etc. And unless she faces her demons she will self destruct and go deeper into the addiction to regain the “high” she felt in the beginning or she may turn to you and expect…no demand..that you fix her problem, which you can’t and that will lead to more problems.

Soon, it will be time for her wake up call. This is going to be the hardest thing for you to do. She has but one option…she give up her addiction to keep her family or she gives up her family and keeps her addictions. I wish I could tell you that this was your decision to make, but it is not. However, it is your decision to either ride the storm out until she hits rock bottom and be there when she climbs out of her hole or you can stop waiting for her and get on with your own life with your children.

She has only been deep into this for the last few months. I know from personal experience it could be years before she finally admits she has a problem and it could be years longer before she finally gets help. Believe me when I say that it does get worse before it gets better. That is why they call it “hitting rock bottom”.

If she does take her cybersex to the next level, I caution you. with her alcohol addiction (obviously she is not thinking clearly), she may not practice safe sex and who knows what she could get. Is that something you can forgive?